Boys

Boys. Boys are a constant struggle for us- so I thought I would share some tips that have worked for me (and people I know!).

1. If you want a boy to like you, don't chase him. Sometimes, guys are a little afraid to be chased. Now, this might now always be the case but in my experience it is.

2. Don't be afraid to be his friend!

3. Do not change who you are- if a guy doesn't like you for you, he's not worth your time

4. People really do change- for better and for worse. Some guys may turn nice... and others, not so much.

5. Don't be afraid to talk to him! He might be afraid to talk to you!

6. Be nice. Don't say things to seem "cool" because even if guys pretend to like cool girls on the surface, they really want a girl who they can enjoy themselves around!
7. Guys get nervous too! If you feel like you said something stupid, they probably didn't even notice! You are the only one who notices these things!

8. Every guy has a different type- just because one guy doesn't like brunettes with freckles, it doesn't mean that his friends don't like brunettes with freckles! (Just an example)

9. Don't get discouraged! If a guy turns you down or just generally makes you feel icky, don't give up on guys as a whole! Contrary to how you feel right now, there really are other fish in the sea!

10. Have I stressed this enough?... BE YOURSELF!